Thanks for taking the time to visit my JustGiving page in memory of my adored partner, Gary Seaman, who died from post operative complications on 20 June 2013, aged just 53. His two sons, Alex and Luca, and I have chosen Adfam as the charity to honour Gary's memory due to his close association with the organisation and his dedicated work to support carers and those impacted by the effects of substance misuse in the London Borough of Lewisham and beyond.

In the words of Vivienne Evans, CEO of Adfam: "Gary was one of Adfam's most faithful and vocal supporters. He would always be available for interviews, photographs and focus groups, giving the all important perspective of a family member affected by substance misuse. That willingness both to participate and to speak out made a vital contribution to our work; it is very much appreciated, and will be sadly missed.

Adfam's work as the national voice of the family benefitted from the passion and commitment which Gary demonstrated. This benefit was enjoyed not only by our organisation, but for the thousands of families everywhere who find themselves affected by addiction. It is only by speaking out from behind the stigma which attaches itself to families in this position that we will be able to create a national movement which campaigns for more recognition and support.

Gary's untimely death leaves a sadness and a loss. He will, however, always be part of Adfam and will be remembered with great affection as a friend and supporter, as a campaigner and an example to us all."

A fitting tribute and one that will be recognised by all who had the privilege to get to know, and love, this wonderful, generous and unique man. He leaves a space in our hearts that can never be filled but will always be remembered.

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