Story
Thanks for taking the time to visit my JustGiving page.
Im really really sorry for doing another one of these. I promise to not have any more tragedies for a long while. Promise
My Aunt, Fiona, has been working tirelessly for months now as she has taken on the challenge of raising money for a whole year, in memory of my Dad.
The money raised will go directly to the Hospice that looked after him before he passed away. Nothing donated will go towards my efforts.
I've been promising to do something for ages, but there's always been something better to do. Pick my nose. Look out of the window. Teach my kids the rude songs my Dad taught me (dont tell George)
But now, with the help of a couple of friends, I've finally got around to doing 'my bit'
But before I tell you about that, let me tell you a little about the hospice.
My Dad, my hero, was diagnosed with lung cancer back in 2010. That day was exactly everything you'd expect it to be. Sadly, a lot of you wont need to imagine what that day feels like.
After a very short fight it became apparent that this was one fight my old man wasn't going to win. That day, when he decided the best place for him would be the hospice (he decided, not us, he thought it would be easier on Mum, i think that says everything about him) was exactly how you would expect it to be. I genuinely don't have the words
The transfer to the hospice, the mechanics of palliative care, the unusual surroundings, the fear, the realisation of where we were. Everything. Exactly as you'd expect it to be
Then after 24 hours. It wasnt as you'd expect it to be
Not even in the slightest
It was the opposite
Dads meds were balanced and he was happy
We relaxed into the new surroundings, and seeing Dad comfy and relaxed made us happy
The 462 relatives that were there all the time, telling jokes regurgitated from every family party since 1969. Happy
And that is the weird thing about this place. It's not a sad place. Dont get me wrong, I didnt want to be there. But its not sad
Its smiling. Its accepting. Its good enough to pull you and yours out of the dark hole you've been in for weeks, months or even years
When Dad passed away I have a very vivid memory of going there the next day, and not wanting to leave. I think we even stayed for a cup of tea (they do good tea)
So, thats it, thats why im doing this. This place can make you happy, when you have no right to be so, at all, and I'll always love it because of that and what they did for my Dad
So, what am i doing?
In September I'm going to the Alps with two mates, and we're going to cycle up 5 of the hardest mountain passes known to the Tour De France
No seriously, we are
Stop laughing
STOP LAUGHING
Thats not very nice
Im a honed (ish) athlete
The five climbs (within current plans) are :
14th September - Mount Ventoux
15th September - Alpe D'Huez
16th September - Col du Glandon
17th September - Col Du Galibier
18th September - Col de la Madeleine
We have another couple of possibles up our sleeves and the order could change depending on weather. The wind can be really bad
Flipping protein shakes for you
So that's it
Please, help me, to help Aunti Fo, to help them
Lots of love
S xx
Ps, I promise, after this, thats it, no more Lycra and charity. Honest.